Some people write at work on their lunch break or during a slow day. Others write at night or first thing in the morning, around their busy lives. I'm fortunate to be able to stay home and write, but how much time I put into my work depends on the time of year.
My son is with me every 4 months *and* I homeschool him. That means less time to write when he is with me, but I accomplish the most important things regardless, even if that means I don't get to spend hours and hours world-building. Mornings are about homeschooling, taking care of the house, and running errands. Our afternoons tend to be "down time", which is when I write while my son is here. I also get a decent amount of writing done at the playground and at his Hapkido class (yes, I carry either my laptop or, more often, a pen and notebook).
This is the "off-time", when my son is with his dad. This means I set goals for the next four months, and my focus goes completely and utterly into writing, and other projects. My son left on Friday, so I tried to take it easy this weekend (no writing, minimal work on other projects) to start Monday fresh. My goals for the next four months are:
1. Finalize the first draft of the urban fantasy novel that I completed last year and begin to query publishers.
2. Finalize the rough draft of the non-fiction book I have been working on.
3. Potentially query agents with the completed urban fantasy novel (once finalized).
4. Choose a NaNoWriMo project. I have over 20 novels in various states or progress, and I need to decide which one is next. I like to use
NaNoWriMo to jump start my writing once a year. Unfortunately, I missed last year's because I was busy getting divorced and moving back to the U.S. from Korea (all good developments, but chaos and change are not necessarily conducive to writing). The urban fantasy novel that I am finalizing now is a product of my first ever NaNoWriMo participation (and win) in 2010.
So how does a day in the life of an at-home writer and wife look, without her child here? (I suppose the same daily schedule might apply to some extent if my son went to public school, except my afternoons and evenings would be about spending time with him.)
6:30 - 8:00 a.m.: Wake up. I normally get up between 7:30 and 8, but some days I get up earlier. My husband leaves for work around 6:15, and he flops on top of me for goodbye hugs before he departs; sometimes, I just can't go back to sleep.
9:00 a.m.: By now I've worked out, had breakfast, maybe some tea, cleaned house (I have a schedule, which makes it easy to stay on top of vacuuming, laundry, and dusting), and have checked email, blogs and forums. My bird is perched in my hair (literally) and it's time to get productive. So I write. If I'm not writing by 10 a.m., I'm probably fighting through my mind as it runs in circles.
11:30 a.m. Do dishes, prepare my caique's fruits and veggies for his "lunch", make my own lunch. During the lunch hour, my husband often comes home, which can throw my focus off completely. Bad husband. Mess around a bit with checking email, blogs and forums.
12:30 p.m. Run errands. I almost always walk to run my errands, just because it wakes me up a bit. If I need to bring packages to the Post Office, I will ask my husband to take our other car to work - I dislike driving a car with a manual transmission - and to leave me the automatic.
1:30 p.m. Back to work at home. Let the caique out of his cage. Write as much as possible before my husband gets home.
4:30 p.m. Make sure the house is fairly uncluttered, put the caique in his cage (its not safe to have him flying around while the stove is on) and start dinner. It's usually something spicy. ^.^ (Curry tonight.)
6:00 p.m. If I have been tackled by my husband at this point, I am free to let our caique out of his cage until 8 p.m. (that's birdie bedtime!) and write until 10 p.m., other than the occasional getting-dragged-into-my-husband's-lap-and-made-to-watch-AVGN incident. Though some nights also turn into video game sessions. I usually like to shower at night as well.
However, in all, I can guarantee myself about 5-6 hours during my husband's work day to get some writing done. The 3-5 hours of writing in the evening is just the icing on the cake. Since I am very Type A, my day is basically schedule and To-Do listed, which is how I stay so organized with my time, keep the house clean, keep the bird and husband happy, and keep myself happy too.
Copyright (c) 2011 Wendy L. Callahan